That there is no such thing as bad publicity, only publicity.
“Quiet people do not make history”
That was what I learnt from the prisoners of alcatraz.
Thanks to the girls in that forum, my mailing list have since grown within a day. Whahaha!
Like what B said, I shouldn’t let all these nonsense & gossips crumple me down. Ultimately those lovely girls who genuinely bought clothes from my shop have their own eyes to see what’s wrong & what’s right.
It’s really funny how silly some girls can get, when they have NEVER EVER bought any items from me before yet jumps into huge conclusion that
“Oh WD has such bad CS etc etc… why can’t they just do an exchange? “
“all their pictures are so misleading…”
“It’s so unenthical of them… no matter what I won’t buy from them next time..”
Why does all these sounds like other blogshop owners trying to create a propaganda to frame others?
To put it off blatantly, I dare say that more than 1/2 of the girls there are simply blogshop owners themselves trying to find means to advertise or put others down when they have the chance to do it.
Particularly, there was even a girl who took a picture of what she wore to office with the lace dress she got from me and claimed that it’s unfair to her because she was the one who post reviews in that forum and many people might have since feedback ed to me based on her reviews to make the dress smaller.
And the best thing is, she wants an exchange for that dress AFTER she have already wore it to the office earlier. 
She is a blogshop owner herself who made her way through the forum I believe and had bought from me a couple of times too.
It had come to my thinking that if I really have such bad CS, I wouldn’t have survived till today. I always make the point to mail out the parcels as soon as possible so that all my customers can receive it the very next day and even try to restock sold out items the next day just so I can mail out the parcels fast.
Honestly, I feel really helpless at times. People don’t remember the good things but always the bad ones. I can’t help if people are influenced by their buying decisions based on reviews can I? Neither can I help if people choose to buy the item based on impulse if they didn’t read the measurements at all and paid almost immediately?
I don’t know if I have regretted making the dresses in 2 sizes for BO. I will be so dishonest if I say no.
Anyway what done cannot be undone and it’s not as though many girls from that forum purchase from my shop anyway.
From now on, I will not bother much about those coffeeshop talks & gossips in that forum & concentrate on providing better apparels & the majority of the girls who bought from me based on referrals through their friends or have known my shop through communities.
Ultimately, people buy from me because they like my items and the choice of my apparels. 
I am especially thankful for those girls who had emailed me words of encouragement, telling me it’s not my fault or that I shouldn’t blame myself on this since those girls didn’t even bother checking the measurements before ordering.
It’s really these kind girls that keeps me going & I believe I will grow stronger & better from this experience!
xoxo
